Why do we get angry one someone and in a situation we have?

 Why do we get angry one someone and in a situation we have?

From where does this issue actually start? is it because of certain thinking patterns? Are we all common people under the same umbrella of the same process, same habits, and same thinking? is it due to the people we are surrounded with? Do we need to find the root cause of this? i feel it is the self- insecurity creating all this as everyone is now feeling insecure from inside and they trying to find that outside world.

We are not joined in the world, we like to stay alone and in our own world. This is due to the disconnect between people and there is a missing PURE LOVE which is unconditional.

Nowadays Love also depends on responsibilities and commitments and duties and support.

we can't love our family members without any expectations, if someone does not do something right, do we feel angry? do we irritate?

Why because they do not fit in our perfect person image? or do we have our own imagination of a perfect person? I think no one can fulfill any other person's imagination.

There was a story of Dev Indra who asked his architect to build a beautiful house. He did with all golds and marbles and pearls and diamonds.

But after Indra visits the palace, he said "it is nice but I want better than this"

Then he went again and this time tried, rare stones and expensive diamonds and beautiful designs.

After Indra visited, he said "It is much much better than previous, but still I want better, can you make it"

This was on and on....the story says we can't fit other imaginations. and here many issues start because of our expectation of the perfect person in our life.

You can read - Jaddu Krishnamurti if you want to read about inner security.

there are many other aspects I feel, which I will share in coming comments. thank you for reading.