Our Memory and it's effects and side effects..

                                         Our Memory and it's effects and side effects..

Many people must have already read about or many will be learning something new today. The point to mention this topic today because of two action and reaction I have noticed in last two days.
Let me tell you both the incident :
One person met with one of his old neighbor and they both have had good memories in their childhood. So they discussed very fluently and they enjoyed their company again, they both were able to spend good time and they said a bye with the plan of future meet.
Another person met with one of his old friend and they have had lot of bad memories in their childhood. So they saw each other on the road and they rejected to meet each other and they crossed the road. They had a simple thought in mind ...how come he is alive and how is he enjoying life.
These two and many such incident , more critical or some minute level if incident happens in life with each and every person in the life.
It's all about how you use your memory to response in any situation. The problem of humans are using the memory to save the incident in their available storage place as experience.
After that it will be processing as a reference data for all future such or similar incidents. It means that you would not be expecting a better experience in future.
It impacts your life, business, mind, relationship, carrier and growth.
Let me tell you a simple activity which I had tried and learned from it.
If you are meeting with same person again , they try to meet with plain slate or in other words talk like meeting 1st time...
See how you experience...would be exceptional and like a dream.
It is a point to think on it ..spend good about of time to understand about it, what Bob Proctor is saying about terror barrier, that is you memory which is holding historical experience and nothing else.
If you use your memory wisely then soon people will start talking about you as a wise person.
Do it if you want it,it change your approach, it change your reactions, it change your relations, it help you to make more friends, it help you to bring the growth in carrier.
Try it out....let me know if any clarification required or more depth information required.
Thank you for reading.

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